This is an interesting site. Some members are in a “lifestyle” which is awesome and I haven’t experienced it. Some members are like me and curious about what else is out there and excited to experiment. Some “members” are bots or scammers looking to take advantage of real people just exploring and living their lives. I am someone who is very happy with what I have and what I have built but I love sharing that with people and want to enjoy my life. I can’t join regular dating apps as I don’t want to be seen by friends or acquaintances. I have a very healthy sexual appetite and have been lucky to explore and enjoy some amazing relationships. At this point, I work a lot and I have a close group of friends. I am looking to find someone who understands that life is meant to be enjoyed and I’d love to find someone that wants to share that with me. I don’t ask for much, but I want someone who is mature, smart, feels sexy and wants to love their life. I will spoil you and I want to be spoiled. There are so many people on this site looking for many things. Obviously, the women are overwhelmed with guys hitting then up for sex. I don’t need anything. I want to give and I want to be given. I hope to find someone who is smart, secure, confident and likes to explore. Someone who wants to enjoy a nice dinner, enjoy a couple drinks (not necessary) and can connect intellectually as much as physically. I need the mental to really enjoy the physical. I understand how we have to act in society and how we can act in the bedroom, or anywhere else we want to get freaky and fun. I purposely keep a low profile on this site and I understand that might not be ideal. However, if someone understands what I am saying, we could have the most incredible time together, dining, travelling, playing and loving. Let’s enjoy each other, get freaky, live life and enjoy! It really is that simple!

My Ideal Person A female who wants to enjoy life, have fun, be free and experiment. Not scared to be tied down, blindfolded, pleasured and fucked deep. Open to life and wants to be happy.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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