I'm not the great conversationalist but I can keep my own. Honestly, I'm looking to scratch an itch. I give myself a 5 for what I can do. But I can do hours of fun. I've only had a couple of partners that really taught me what it meant to have fun so that's why I only give myself a 5. I enjoy going down for long periods of time and even more so between rounds. But, one thing usually does lead to another, or sometimes it doesn't. I'm okay either way. I'm 6 foot (ish) medium build for a 40+ year old. I can see my toes and that's better than most of my friends my age but I do need to visit the gym more than I do. That doesn't mean I can't pick you up and do things against the wall (if that is what is required/requested). I'm kind of weird (tbh), sarcastic, and drawn to dark humor. Been around the military too much to have a clean mind and I'm looking to explore. I am not the missionary type once a month type of guy.... looking for adventure and having fun. Hell, I'd settle for adventure and fun standing up, but at the end of the day... well, that's what I'm here for.

My Ideal Person It is hard to say what I'm looking for... does anyone really know until they find it? Intimacy is very important to me and that matters more to me than boring conversations. Although, I'd love great conversations as well, like I said, it is complicated. What I am looking for and what I am looking for right now are two different things at the moment (but maybe not so far apart). Maybe I will find it here, maybe I won't. I'm willing to do what I have to do to find it though.

But, while I'm being honest, taller is better. I'm 6'1" and I love women that are taller than me. I still love women that are shorter than me too. Experience is a must... or willing to learn as much as I know at least. There won't be any just laid back and enjoy the ride types, active participants only (unless you want to go from the former to the latter).

The perfect person is the a yin to my yang, I honestly don't know what that is. I know that I like people that are confident in themselves and forceful of their ideals. That is sexy to me. Body types matter very little, be a beast and able to tame a beast (if you know, you know, if you don't, then sorry).

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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